How much time do we spend on getting those details just right though? And how much time are we spending with God? Which one is more important? Or I guess another way to put it... which one will last forever?
It's ok to get the details right, just make sure you are spending time with God too, that the time you would normally spend with him isn't getting pushed to the side while you go hang garland.
See Luke 40:41-42
"Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her"